children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of
Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And
though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them
your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You
may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in
the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For
life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows
from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer
sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His
might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the
archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that
flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable. (Kahlil Gibran)
As I began to love myself
Charlie Chaplin, 16th April 1959
As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering
are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I
know, this is authenticiy.
2 As I began to
love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to
force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not
right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person
was me. Today I call it respect.
3 As I began
to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see
that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I
call it maturity.
4 As I began to love myself
I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the
right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I
could be calm. Today I call it self-confidence.
As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time, and I stopped
designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me
joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer,
and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it
6 As I began to love myself I
freed myself of anything that is no good for my health - food, people,
things, situations, and everything the drew me down and away from
myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know
it is love of oneself.
7 As I began to love
myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong
less of the time. Today I discovered that is modesty.
As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and
worry about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where
everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call
9 As I began to love myself
I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But
as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I
call this connection wisdom of the heart.
We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of
problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their
crashing new worlds are born. Today I know that is life!